They queue your message for a person.
We hand you the calm version.
Civil Communicator uses human reviewers at $395/year per person, capped at 30 reviewed messages a month. Civly uses AI to do it in seconds, with no monthly cap, for $79/year.
Civly
$79/year
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AI rewriting with no monthly cap, calendar, expenses — everything.
Civil Communicator
$395/year
30 messages/month. Human review delays. Credits run out.
The real difference
Civil Communicator was built for a different era. Human reviewers read every message before it's delivered. That means delays — sometimes hours, sometimes days. In co-parenting, you can't wait until tomorrow to confirm pickup time.
Their credit system caps you at 30 reviewed messages per month. If you want coaching on a message, it costs 3 credits — so you get 10 coached messages. For families dealing with frequent schedule changes, expenses, and daily logistics, 30 messages is nothing.
Civly uses AI trained on the BIFF method to do what Civil Communicator's human reviewers do — but in seconds, with no monthly cap, and at a fifth of the price. Every message gets a conflict score. Every rewrite uses the same Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm framework that family courts trust.
Same methodology. Instant delivery. No message caps. $79/year instead of $395 per person.
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